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Isn’t it Ironic – Don’t You Think? By Maria Grant

August 11, 2022 by Maria Grant 4 Comments

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Irony is a literary device in which contradictory statements or situations reveal a reality that is different from what appears to be true. In my mind, there is a hell of a lot of irony in today’s world.

First, let’s look at those so called “patriots” who stormed the Capitol. They illegally entered the Capitol, desecrated that sacred space, maimed police officers and more, and yet they and their followers continue to call themselves patriots. Isn’t it ironic?

Second, so-called “religious” people who are supposed to stand for peace, harmony, and love spew so much hate–making racist comments, and endlessly judging others—for example, a women’s right to choose. What happened to “let he who is without sin cast the first stone?” Or “do not judge, or you too will be judged?” And then there are the endless indiscretions of evangelicals (Jimmy Swaggart) and Catholic priests charged as pedophiles and religious leaders accused of fraud and conspiracy (Jim Bakker). The hypocrisy of the so-called virtuous seems almost never-ending. Isn’t it ironic? 

Third, there are those who have benefited from affirmative action, or from U.S immigration policies, or from white privilege but are not in favor of others receiving those same benefits. Think Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas who benefited from affirmative action (it’s interesting that he is against gay but not interracial marriage) and the many U.S. citizens in Texas and Florida who immigrated into the U.S. but decry others legally entering the U.S. Plus, the privileged white folk who got accepted into Ivy League schools because of a legacy or parent who donated money or a building—think Jared Kushner—who strongly advocate that everyone else pull themselves up by their own bootstraps. Isn’t it ironic? 

Fourth, one group of minorities making derogatory comments about another group of minorities. These minority groups understand how hurtful it is to endure racial slurs yet continue to malign other minorities. Cases in point: Native Americans who criticize Mexicans; Mexicans who criticize Black people and vice versa. Isn’t it ironic—and sad?

Fifth, there are a ton of so called “environmentalists whose carbon footprint is anything but environmentally responsible. We are talking major-league conspicuous consumption–multiple mansions, limos, private planes, and mega-yachts. Isn’t it ironic? 

Sixth, Americans who never served in the military but who benefited from the protection of others who served, objecting to tax dollars spent on caring for veterans. And then, of course, there was Trump’s statement about not liking the optics of disabled veterans in a military parade. Isn’t it ironic? 

Seventh, what about mega-corporations that for years have paid virtually no taxes and have almost patently immoral profits–that hire legions of lobbyists so that they receive tax exemptions yet, at the same time, receive massive portions of their revenues from U.S. taxpayers. Defense contractors–I am talking about you. Isn’t it ironic? 

The author W. Somerset Maugham once said, “If a nation values anything more than freedom, it will lose its freedom, and the irony of it is that if it is comfort or money that it values more, it will lose that too.”   Now, that’s the epitome of irony.

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of a federal human capital practice at an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, gardening, and nature.

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When Will the Truth Set Us Free? By Maria Grant

July 14, 2022 by Maria Grant 2 Comments

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When I was much younger, I remember thinking that I would like to revisit several states. I had been to many of them but did not know them well. I wanted to become steeped in their culture and revel in their beauty. Now it frightens me that there are so few states that I want to get to know better. There are many reasons for this sea change. Some involve the results of climate change—rampant fires, increasing temperatures and water issues in Arizona, California, Nevada, Oregon, Utah, and Washington Others involve rising crime, homeless people, and gun-toting cultures. And then there are the politics. 

I am appalled by some of the people we elect as our representatives in Washington. Incompetency, outright stupidity, overt racism, and naked appeals to fear, celebrations of violence, the lack of civility or any attempts to reach across the aisle have become everyday occurrences.

Cases in Point:  Participation in white nationalist convenings in Arizona. Missouri, Alabama, and Mississippi could not move fast enough to take away women’s right to choose. A Wisconsin judge has outlawed ballot drop-off boxes. Plus, Wisconsin Republican Senator Ron Johnson attempted to hand deliver slates of fake electors on January 6. Pennsylvania Republicans have nominated charlatan Dr. Oz as its candidate for senate. Ohio has nominated J.D. Vance, an unabashed Trumper in the same state where Representative “Gym” Jordan reigns. Georgia’s Republican senate nominee is the illiterate domestic abuse perpetrator Herschel Walker, who thinks the earth is flat. And Texas, where do we begin? Perhaps with Senator Cruz and Governor Abbott. Watching the recent candidate debate in Wyoming smacked of a Saturday Night Live skit. And let us not forget Alaska where Sarah Palin is running for an open seat in the House of Representatives. Maryland looks tame by comparison although it has its own issues with gun-toting Andy Harris. 

We have a home in Florida with which I have a love-hate relationship. Do I love the beaches, bird watching, biking, the grouper and stone crabs? Absolutely. But the politics of Florida haunt me. And I must admit I constantly meet Floridians whose primary motivation for voting for candidates is to ensure that they pay as little in taxes as possible. Many of them are not focused on climate change, improving U.S. infrastructure, or investing in Florida’s education system. Instead, they possess a certain smugness. It is the mentality of, “I’m’ a small businessperson who made it and want to protect what I have. The hell with the rest of them.” 

How have we come to this? Why do we celebrate ignorance and racism? Why do we believe crazy conspiracy theories? Why, in the face of overwhelming evidence, were so many Americans reluctant to get vaccinated against Covid? Why do so many Ivy League- educated politicians exploit the ignorance of their voters?

Many sociologists have opined on these issues. Some claim that strong religious fundamentalists reject scientific facts if they conflict with religious teachings. Hence the tendency to deny the validity of evolution. Some say that increasing economic insecurity results in fear and anxiety and increases one’s propensity to listen to crackpot theories. Others claim that the quality of journalistic news, social media, etc. has intensified the tendency to give validity to crazy theories. Still others claim that the lack of trust in our institutions is a key reason for increasing anti-intellectualism. (This week’s Gallup poll states that only 27 percent of Americans have faith in American institutions, and only 23 percent have faith in the Supreme Court.)  And social media has allowed theories to spawn with no due process to validate their accuracy.

All this leaves me to reflect on how in these troubled times it is of the utmost importance for Americans to seek truth. To not get caught up in these social media frenzies that play upon biases. Thomas Jefferson said, “The man who fears no truth has nothing to fear from lies.” In “The Hollow Men,” T.S. Eliot wrote, “This is the way the world ends, This is the way the world ends, This is the way the world ends, not with a bang but a whimper.” 

Let us hope that we step up and smarten up as a nation. That we pursue facts and seek to understand all sides of an issues before making rash judgments. That we respect those who have done their homework and who understand the complexities and pros and cons of different political platforms. Let us try to install standards and credibility in our political institutions so that we trust that our leaders enact balanced, informed, and sensible legislation. Let us once again revel in the beauty and wonder of our country and celebrate the unique qualities of each state. Soon it may be too late. 

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of a federal human capital practice at an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, gardening, and nature.

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Sometimes Less is More by Maria Grant

June 20, 2022 by Maria Grant Leave a Comment

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I have become weary of the unending hyperbole. Every ad. Every Instagram posting—it is the finest, the most exquisite, unique—one of a kind (hello, it means the same thing). Sometimes I read seven adjectives before I get to the noun it modifies—venerable, historic, breathtaking, refined, decadent, esteemed, noteworthy, rarified, bold yet understated. What? I long for the unadulterated concise sentence. Where is it?

The irony, of course, with all this extreme adulation about ice cream, dinner, jewelry, wine, automobiles, or cellphones is that the noun in question often disappoints. Truth be told, it would be hard for most anything to live up to such embellishments. 

Many products we consume in today’s marketplace are of lesser quality than they were in bygone days. But you would never know it to hear the accolades on radio, TV, websites, and Instagram. 

Harvard Business Review published an article sometime back about the eight dimensions of quality:  performance, features, reliability, conformance, durability, serviceability, aesthetics, and perceived quality. For example, Japanese vehicles focus more on reliability and conformance and less on options and aesthetics. The premise of the article is that because it is difficult for a product to be ranked superior in every attribute, it is smart to focus on one or two attributes, while keeping the others in mind. 

The issue of quality is interesting. Some mansions, automobiles, spirits, and purses sell for ridiculously expensive prices. When you read Friday’s Mansion section of the Wall Street Journal, you see stunning estates for $300 million, $240 million, $125 million. (Bill Gates’ house called Xanadu 2.0 is 66,000 square feet, is worth $127 million, and has an annual property tax bill of approximately $1,154 million. It has been reported that Melinda Gates never really liked the mansion that once caused her to have a “mini sort of personal crisis.”) A McLaren Speedtail, an exotic sports car, sold for $3 million at auction. A bottle of Macallan M Scotch sold in a Hong Kong-based auction for $628,205. Melania Trump’s Hermes Birkin purse was valued somewhere between $75,000 and $100,000. Louis Vuitton sells a skateboard for $8,250.

A while back I authored an article about the importance of quality versus quantity. I believe that to be true. But there is a dramatic difference between working hard and striving to own wonderful things that you care for and treasure for a lifetime and ostentatious consumption. This difference becomes even more disturbing when you consider the tremendous income inequality in this country. At the end of 2021, the top one percent in the U.S. owned. 32.3 percent of the nation’s wealth, one of the reasons you see such outrageous spending on items with astounding price tags. 

My point is not only that it is mind boggling that someone would pay $100,000 for a purse. But that most ultra-expensive purchases are not worth their exorbitant price tags. Surely, a Birkin bag is well made. But is it worth 85 percent more than another handbag that is handcrafted from the finest Italian leather and costs $1.000? There comes a point of diminishing returns. A survey from the American Affluence Research Center found that the affluent believe most luxury brands are “overrated.”  

Several surveys have been conducted where avid scotch drinkers taste test scotches ranging from modest prices to bottles worth several hundred dollars. Tasters could differentiate from the lower-cost scotches but had trouble discerning the expensive versus the ultra-expensive ones. Distinctions were small. The same goes for expensive wines. We all love a great crisp chilled white wine but how much more enjoyable is that $800 bottle? 

All this excess makes one long for the short honest descriptions for which Hemingway was famous. 

Here is a quote from Hemingway’s A Moveable Feast: “Sometimes when I was starting a new story and I could not get it going, … I would stand and look out over the roofs of Paris and think, do not worry. You have always written before, and you will write now. All you have to do is write one true sentence. Write the truest sentence that you know. So finally, I would write one true sentence, and then go on from there.”

Let us celebrate the one true sentence—a rarity in this world of overwhelming hyped-up social media. 

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of a federal human capital practice at an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, gardening, and nature.

 

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The Dumbing Down of America by Maria Grant

June 17, 2022 by Maria Grant 5 Comments

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You may have seen segments on late-night TV where hosts go out on public streets and ask passersby questions like, “What’s the capital of Italy?” Or “In what continent is Australia?” Later, when given the correct answer, the responder says, “Wait, you mean Australia is a continent?” The audience roars with laughter. Is this funny or embarrassing? Our ignorance is mind boggling. How can we have the so-called best education system in the world and yet have so many uninformed people?

And things are getting worse. Now we see people proud of their ignorance openly castigating experts in their fields. The number of anti-vaxers during the height of the pandemic was astounding. After millions of Americans were vaccinated, they still doubted the experts, refused to protect themselves, and put others in danger. 

Early election returns have Sarah Palin ahead for the Alaska congressional seat vacated by Representative Don Young (R) who died earlier this year. This is the case even though she was unable to name a single newspaper that she read when she was ran for vice president on the GOP ticket with John McCain. Her lack of foreign affairs knowledge during the debates was beyond frightening. Enter Marjorie Taylor Greene (R-GA) who speaks of “Peachtree dishes” and “Gazpacho police.”

This is a particularly frightening phenomenon given that public officials, who are supposed to consult experts and determine appropriate laws, are incapable or resistant to making informed thoughtful decisions. 

And then there are those policy makers who have Ivy League educations but refute facts and create alternative realities to explain away truths when the facts present themselves. Ted Cruz (R-TX, Princeton, and Harvard Law) said guns were not the problem in the recent school shootings in Uvalde. Instead, he suggested that shooters can be stopped by locking all but one door and posting guards at schools. Immediately after the January 6 insurrection, fist-pumping Josh Hawley (R-MO, Stanford, and Yale Law) voted not to certify Biden’s election, even after no election fraud was detected. Governor Ron DeSantis (R-FL, Yale, and Harvard Law) stirred up a big brouhaha about critical race theory, all the while knowing that it was not a big issue in Florida schools’ curriculums. So why did these three take such positions knowing that the facts did not substantiate their points of view? To play to their base—saying what they knew their base wanted to hear, taking calculated positions to ensure their reelections. 

Many young people today do not read newspapers or watch any news programs. They get their information from the Internet, social media, Facebook, TikTok and various chat rooms. Many of them do not read substantive books. When they pick up a book, it is some fantasy escape or manga cartoon. 

This social media obsession has created an environment where Americans skim the surface of critical issues, develop uninformed opinions and then mock experts who explain in detail the various permutations of different subjects. (Just remember the hatred the masses had for Dr. Fauci.) We have now reached a point where we are proud of our ignorance and refer to those who have done the “deep dive” on particular subject as “elitists.” 

This is a dangerous situation. America seeks to be entertained rather than informed. The inane premises of some recent TV shows are depressing. A new TV show premiering on ABC is called The Final Straw where apparently four teams of contestants pull items from towers of kitchen appliances and basketballs. The winning team is the one whose tower stands the longest. Seriously? Also, speaking of inane TV, on The Masked Singer, Palin was disguised as a bear and Giuliani was a Jack-in-the-Box.

We live in a world of increasing complexity. We must trust scientists, engineers, doctors, who are experts in their various fields. Do these experts sometimes get it wrong? Absolutely. But, at the end of the day, do they know more than average citizens about the issues at hand? Yes. It is the height of ignorance to celebrate ignorance and mock intellectualism. When you do not believe in climate change, even when presented with indisputable facts (Death Valley, CA reached a record high of 130 degrees.) When you continue to believe the election was stolen, even when recount after recount proves otherwise. When you believe lies scripted by QAnon about secret Satanic child-sex trafficking rings or Marjorie Taylor Greene’s false claims that more votes were cast than there were voters in Pennsylvania. Or that straight people face extinction. Or Paul Gosar’s (R-AZ) claim that the Texas shooter was a “transsexual illegal alien,” let us admit that we have issues.

Yes, some may laugh at the insanity of these comments. But we are heading to a seriously bad place, and the rest of the world is watching.

To quote Dostoevsky in The Brothers Karamazov, “Above all, do not lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect, he ceases to love.” 

How close are we to that exact situation today? Please, America take heed. 

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of a federal human capital practice at an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, gardening, and nature.

 

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I Long for Quality and Originality—Less Can Be More by Maria Grant

April 23, 2022 by Maria Grant Leave a Comment

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It has been said that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. Well, let’s just say that there is a lot of flattery going around these days. Every new shiny thing imitates something that came right before it. I watched this year’s Grammy Awards. Billy Ellish was a huge Grammy winner last year. This year, 19-year-old Olivia Rodrigo has taken the world by storm. And a large segment of her music smacks of Billy Ellish’ style. Justin Bieber dances like Michael Jackson. BTS, a Korean rock group, takes one back to the glory days of n ’Sync. Michael Bublé and Harry Connick Jr. echo shades of Frank Sinatra. 

Shakespeare scholars claim that Shakespeare stole whole plot lines from other authors and wove them into his plays. In his case, he did so so ingeniously that they have lasted for hundreds of years. And how many writers imitate Hemingway’s style? J. D. Salinger, Cormac McCarthy, Raymond Carver come to mind—the list goes on. Some of these writers have authored wonderful novels. Other novels are poor imitations.

Picasso once said, “Good artists copy. Great artists steal.”  And it is easy to recognize similarities among works by Cezanne, Monet, Matisse, Degas, Gauguin, and Picasso. Yet each of them provides a valuable variation on a theme. I attended an art auction last week. And much of the art for sale imitated Andy Warhol’s style and took the “soup can” to the next level—Banksy, Lichtenstein, Penley.

Musicians build on another’s work—Beethoven, then Brahms, then Mahler. None of this is bad per se. I suppose it is an evolutionary process. And many successors deepen and enhance their mentors’ works. Yet somehow, I feel the originator should be given more credit. Let’s face it. The movie Clueless does not come close to capturing the charm and nuance of Jane Austen’s wonderful novel Emma. 

Sometimes we witness the result of too much innovation—the DeLorean, the Corvair, the Edsel—cases in point. Perhaps the manufacturers’ of these cars tried a bit too hard to be innovative with less than stellar results. Yet, with perseverance, innovation is its own reward. The progress with electric cars in the past few years —driven so much by Tesla—is utterly amazing. 

The greatest inventions of all time are said to be the wheel, the automobile, the airplane, the printing press, the light bulb, penicillin, the steam engine, the bicycle, the camera, and the telegram. More recent seminal inventions include X-rays, the internet, the PC, the smart phone, and GPS. 

The French author Andre Gide once said, “Everything has been said before, but since no one listens we have to keep going back and beginning all over again.” 

My issue is that I have become weary of the all-pervasive propensity of “clones.” How many singing, dancing, dating and overall talent reality shows do we really need? Yet another NCIS? Seriously? 

In the grocery store, there are clones of Oreos, Cheez-Its, corn flakes, Pringles. You can select from dozens of healthy breads made by the same company—12 grain, 18 grain, whole wheat, multi-grain oat, thin-sliced, thick sliced, etc. 

This year, you can choose from nine different models of Ford SUVs and more than seven different models of Mercedes SUVs. With so many different models, we lose the benefits of economies of scale and, therefore, prices rise. Wouldn’t it make more sense to say have three different models—small, medium, and large–and focus on making them as high a quality as possible? If that were the case, there would be far fewer recalls. (The total number of car recalls has nearly doubled in the last two decades.)

Have you been to the liquor store lately? The variety of assorted flavors of vodka is crazy—lemon, mint, cucumber, raspberry, grapefruit, and more. Here’s a concept. Why not just squeeze fresh lemon or lime juice into your cocktail? Then you can be sure you are getting the real thing. 

Nora Roberts, the romance novelist, has written more than 220 novels. James Patterson has written more than 200 mystery/thriller novels. He writes an average of 10 books per year. How is that even possible? How much time and thought goes into each one? 

The U.S. has taken consumerism—or conspicuous consumption– to new levels. The success of the economies of some Asian countries lies in their recognition that in the U.S consumers will gladly sacrifice quality for quantity and are eager to buy foreign manufactured products that are of lower quality and at a lower price point. In contrast, many find the simplicity of less developed countries appealing. There is beauty in the loaf of homemade bread, pasta, and wine not served before its time. 

Sometimes less really is more. Going back to basics. Stripping down facades to their bare essence makes sense. I have come to find beauty in the unadorned simple gown, a beautifully honed simple piece of furniture carved to perfection. Samuel Johnson said, “No man is evermore great by imitation.”  Henry David Thoreau said, “Simplify, simplify!”  America, take heart. A focus on quality rather than quantity is a beautiful thing. 

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of a federal human capital practice at an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, gardening, and nature.

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In this Modern World, It’s Tough to be an Expert by Maria Grant

February 21, 2022 by Maria Grant 1 Comment

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As I watched the Olympics over the past few weeks, and read comments from fellow observers, I have been contemplating the tough road of being an expert at something given the public’s expectations in today’s world. 

Disparaging comments about athletes who have had disappointing results in this year’s winter Olympics have been relentless. Mikaela Shiffrin, a previous Olympic gold-medal winner who had several unsuccessful ski runs this year, was inundated with cruel messages on social media. People called her a dumb blonde, a disappointment to her country, a choker, and some asked her to retire. And let’s not even begin to unpack the performance of 15-year-old Kamila Valieva who was accused of having illegal drugs in her system, had a disappointing four-minute skating program with several mistakes and a fall, and was harshly criticized by her coach “for not even trying” while millions around the world watched. 

And it’s not just the Olympics. Dr. Anthony Fauci who has devoted his life to public service has been called an idiot because he could not predict the next variant of Covid that would come down the pike. Even the best concert pianists are criticized for interpreting music incorrectly. Chefs, actors, writers, artists, and poets are summarily rounded at the slightest provocation. We cannot seem to stop criticizing. 

Ironically, many people doing the criticism are sitting at home on their sofas drinking Miller Lites while watching TV as they blast their fellow man. 

I keep thinking about the discipline these Olympic athletes exhibit day after day, year after year. Countless hours of practice, endless drug testing, often experiencing assaults on their bodies followed by intense rehabilitation. 

We have become a nation of critics that loves a winner and reviles a loser. I find it cruel and unconscionable. The damage it can do to these athletes—especially the ultra-young ones—is off the charts. 

I have played the piano for several years. I can play a particular piece repeatedly, and still find it difficult to get through the whole piece without making a mistake. It is frustrating and at times embarrassing. When I go to a concert, I am amazed that a pianist can play a sonata from beginning to end without music and without errors. How is that possible? I realize that I am not a professional musician but even so, it is extremely impressive that someone can play for 35 minutes without error or music. I know how hard that is. And I can begin to understand the time and effort these musicians put into their craft.

Listening to commentators at the Olympics who give detailed descriptions of every point and every expectation of each of countless moves overwhelms me. I watch incredible feats of skiing, jumping, skating, snowboarding, etc., and hear tiny nuances that can make or break a contender. The curve of a skate. The hold on a snowboard. The angle of a ski. The technicalities are daunting. The pressure is relentless. And the complexity of these maneuvers is mind boggling. 

Then, I think about how difficult it is to be a medical professional, or an athlete, or a musician, or a writer. It takes discipline, forbearance, grit, guts, tenacity, and more. They try their best and constantly seek to improve. They talk to other experts, practice more, gather different points of view and eventually decide upon a direction that they hope will give them a winning result. 

Others seldom try hard at anything. They are content to perform their jobs at mediocre levels and are fine with not learning all there is to know about their occupations. And yet it seems to me that those are the very people who unceasingly criticize others and send off these heartlessly cruel attacks on their fellow man.

In those rare instances where perfection happens, it is truly a beautiful thing. Think Beethoven’s 9th, the Mona Lisa, Don Quixote, the Taj Mahal, a bottle of Chateau Latour. It stirs our soul. We catch our breath as we embrace the potential and genius of humankind. 

But striving for perfection is a difficult road. It happens. But rarely. And let us face facts. People make mistakes. It’s only human. The best quarterbacks throw interceptions (Brady threw 203 in his career; Favre 286). The best actors sometimes forget their lines (Marlon Brando and John Barrymore). The best pianists can miss a note (Arthur Rubinstein). And the Greatest of all Time (GOAT) gymnast Simone Biles can fall off a balance beam. 

As Alexander Pope said, “To err is human, to forgive, divine.”  My suggestion: Let us remove the vitriol from our cocktails and add a spoonful of forgiveness with a dash of empathy. 

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of a Federal human capital consulting practice of an international consulting firm.  While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, gardening, and nature.

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Why America Loves an Underdog by Maria Grant

February 3, 2022 by Maria Grant Leave a Comment

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America loves an underdog. But America also loves to predict a winner. Wise commentators offer complex analyses to predict who the winner, in all probability, will be. Yet America is often wrong. 

Think back to the 2008 primary. Everyone predicted Hillary would beat Obama. Then think back to the 2016 primary. Almost every reporter predicted Jeb Bush would be the Republican nominee for President. Then recall the actual 2016 election. Prognosticator after prognosticator, predicted Hillary would beat Trump. Obviously, there are many reasons that didn’t happen. But still, so many were wrong. 

Now, let’s talk football. This playoff season has been one of the most exciting in ages. Talk about upsets. Virtually no one predicted that not one of the three legendary quarterbacks (Brady, Rogers and Mahomes—young but still legendary–) would go to the Super Bowl this year. I read article after article. “There is no way that the Bengals will beat Tampa Bay.” And then, “There is no way that San Francisco will beat the Packers.” “And there is absolutely no way the Bengals will beat the Chiefs.” Well, there was a way. And they did. (Also, as an aside, remember that Brady was the 199th draft pick. No one expected much of him.)

There are so many examples of underdogs coming from behind for spectacular wins. There was the 1913 Kentucky Derby horse Donerail’s shocking 91-to-1 odds upset. In the Olympics, probably the biggest upset is still the “Miracle on Ice” in 1980 when the US beat the Russian hockey team and then went on to win the Gold by beating Finland. A close second was Tara Lipinski’s win against Michelle Kwan. In the Oscars, there’s the making of the movie Rocky. Stallone had almost no money and kept peddling the movie—even saying no when one studio said it would buy it but not allow him to act in it. The rest is Oscar history. 

Then there are those rags to riches stories. Oprah, born in poverty, becomes the first African American billionaire. 

So, what is the moral of these stories? We aren’t as smart as we think we are. Pundits often engage in analysis paralysis. Anything can happen. Sometimes the frontrunner caves under pressure. Sometimes the underdog rises to the occasion. Sometimes we root for the underdog unless it means our team loses. Sometimes we want the so-called “elites” to be wrong. To put them in their place. One of the reasons Trump won is because he wasn’t a politician. People were weary of so-called “expert” politicians. Sometimes we root for the underdog because we want things to be fair. Why are so many against the Yankees? Because often their payroll was so much bigger than every other team’s. 

Then there is the romance of the underdog taking over the behemoth. Think Tesla now being worth more than GM. Or IBM vs Microsoft vs Apple. Things get much more complicated when the underdog takes over market share and no longer retains that title. 

But the other moral is that we shouldn’t give up on our dreams. Even if there are a million reasons why it will be a tough ride—an almost impossible climb. Anything can happen. We love the underdog because it gives us all hope. That hope that springs eternal. And as Rocky once said, “Every champion was once a contender who refused to give up.”

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of a Federal human capital consulting practice of an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, gardening, nature, and travel.

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Thanks to Trump – Cheney, Bush, Romney, and Nixon Are Starting to Look Not Half Bad

January 10, 2022 by Maria Grant 4 Comments

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Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would find myself applauding the Cheneys. I found Dick Cheney’s cavalier attitude while Vice President to be a constant irritant. Not to mention contracts to Halliburton, false claims of weapons of mass destruction, approval of waterboarding—and, of course, accidentally shooting Harry Whittington, a Texas attorney, in the face while quail hunting.

 I disagree with Liz Cheney on almost every issue—gun control, regulating greenhouse gas emissions, abortion, healthcare, the Middle East—the list goes on. Yet last Thursday, Dick Cheney and his daughter Liz were the only Republicans who had the guts to honor those who protected the Capitol on January 6, 2021. I give them both credit for doing so. And I give Liz extra credit for staying true to her conservative beliefs but also giving an honest assessment of Trump’s anti-democratic and complicit behavior regarding January 6. 

When George Bush was president, I bemoaned his gutting the government surplus that Clinton amassed, approving illegal interrogation acts, hiring a horse expert to run FEMA, and permitting unlawful spying on Americans. Yet now I remember how graciously Bush welcomed Obama to the White House. He couldn’t have been more hospitable. Even his daughters were kind and welcoming to Sasha and Malia. Contrast that with Trump’s entire family refusing to greet the incoming President or even attend the inauguration. 

During his campaign, Romney said Obamacare was the worse piece of healthcare legislation in the history of healthcare legislation—even though it was a mirror image of his healthcare plan in Massachusetts. He said Obama was weak on terrorists, even though Obama ‘s administration killed Osama Bin Laden. At a fundraiser for wealthy donors, Romney claimed that 47 percent of people will vote for Obama no matter what. He stated, “they believe they are victims who believe the government has a responsibility to care for them, who believe that they are entitled to healthcare, to food, to housing, to you name it.” Romney went on to say, “My job is not to worry about those people. I’ll never convince them they should take personal responsibility and care for their lives.”  He also suggested that people should vote for him because he was a businessman even though he refused to divulge any information about how he ran his business. That was then. This is now. Now Romney is a Republican who voted to convict Trump of abusing his power and who condemned Trump for stonewalling the Biden presidency and attempting to prevent the peaceful transition of power.

Many Americans idolize Ronald Reagan. I was never one of them. I was going to Georgetown University when Reagan became President, and I was appalled at the difference in the town between the Carter and Reagan administrations. What seemed like an endless stream of limousines was constantly going up and down Wisconsin Avenue and M Street. There were lines out the door at Elizabeth Arden’s for updo hairdos, and the town suffered from a shortage of fancy ball gowns. To me, it seemed like the height of excess—flaunting ostentatious wealth–almost patently immoral. After the excesses of the Trump administration and the glitzy tasteless Trump brand in general, Reagan ‘s conspicuous consumption seems like child’s play in comparison. Now, I remember him as a wise sage who said things like, “trust but verify, “and “a people free to choose will always choose peace.”

And then, of course, there is Richard Nixon. Until now, he was considered one of the worst presidents in history. He disgraced the office, lied, and covered up his indiscretions. He resigned to save the country from the disconcerting and damaging process of an impeachment trial. The comparison to Trump does not bear repeating. And let’s not forget that Nixon also founded the Environmental Protection Agency, began a war on cancer, lowered the voting age to 18, signed the Paris Peace Accords, avoided a second Cuban missile crisis, and supported Israel with massive aid which Golda Meir later said saved her country.

Shakespeare said, “The evil that men do lives after them; the good is often interred with their bones.” So, if for nothing else, I can thank Trump for my remembering the good in some Republicans (although not many currently in office).

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of the Federal human capital practice of an international consulting firm. Currently she is the HR Director of Politics & Prose Bookstore in DC. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on reading, writing, piano, gardening, and nature.

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Remember the Best – Forget the Rest by Maria Grant

November 8, 2021 by Maria Grant 2 Comments

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I remember visiting my mom the last 10 years of her life and frequently thinking how weird it must be to have outlived most of the people she knew. She had outlived her siblings, two husbands, neighbors, friends, and colleagues. There weren’t many people left who could remember “when”—those funny stories, poignant moments, trips, and tales. I used to wonder how you survive so much loss.

Now, I’m much younger than my mother was then, and have seen too many husbands, children, friends, neighbors, and colleagues die. Already, I remember some special moments, and realize that those who I shared them with are no longer here. 

I am not alone. Many of my friends have experienced incredible loss. And these days, with a pandemic, continuing international conflicts, devastating cancers, overdoses, suicides, murders and more, it’s amazing that some of us are still standing. 

So, what to make of it all? My mom used to say, “Remember the best; forget the rest.”  And it is crazy what you remember. My mom loved chardonnay, onion rings and Pavarotti. My husband was obsessed with Ingrid Bergman. We watched every movie she made countless times. My best friend, an English major, quoted Keats at the slightest provocation.

What I remember most about the people now gone are those small thoughtful gestures they made. Showing up to pick me up in a rainstorm—an unexpected treat. Flowers that arrived at my office to let me know they were thinking of me during the anniversary of a loss. A friend who drove several miles to take my dog for a walk when my flight was significantly delayed. 

So perhaps one lesson from all this is to focus on making special memories—special efforts—with those who are still here. Recently, I took a job back in the city, and the best parts of my days are when I witness acts of kindness. In the last few weeks, I’ve seen a teenager walk an elderly man across the street when the light was ready to turn. I’ve seen a bilingual woman help a Latino woman communicate with a pharmacist about a prescription. I’ve watched a teenager take a heavy grocery cart from an elderly woman and walk her all the way to her apartment. I work in a bookstore, and I watched a bookseller help a customer locate a book when the customer couldn’t remember the author, title, or much of the plot. It was a joyful moment when through detailed questions, the mystery was solved!

So, in this crazy society where we are too quick to judge, too quick to find fault, let’s just stop. Let’s agree that there is too much judging. Too much criticizing. Too much cruelty. Too little empathy. Too little compassion. I may sound like Pollyanna, but trust me. It’s those little acts of kindness that make it all worthwhile.

Sometimes, I remember my shortness of temper, my frustration, with those who have died and wish I had the opportunity to redeem myself—to have a do-over. It’s too late to make amends to them. But it’s not too late for those who are still here. 

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of a Federal human capital consulting practice of an international consulting firm. She currently is the HR Director for Politics and Prose Bookstore in D.C. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, gardening, nature, and travel.

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Feeling Entitled? Let’s Talk About It by Maria Grant

August 13, 2021 by Maria Grant

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I am troubled by today’s pervasive entitlement mentality. Students who have college loans feel they are entitled to debt-free carte-blanche forgiveness without paying them off. Sexual harassers who hold powerful positions feel they are entitled to take what they want—simply because they are who they are. Children who have famous parents often exploit their privileged lives because they feel entitled to commit egregious and sometimes illegal acts as though it is their birthright.  

Feeling entitled can lead to dangerous consequences. Let’s consider a few examples.  

Often people who come from humble beginnings attend expensive private colleges and rack up hundreds of thousands of dollars of college debt. Should they be allowed to attend those universities? Of course. But should they also consider the ramifications of paying off that debt and factor in the cost-benefit analysis of private versus public universities with much lower costs? If you buy an expensive house, you must realize that it will result in a huge mortgage. Someone else isn’t going to pay it off unless perhaps a wealthy uncle dies and leaves you a pile of cash. Sure, one can argue that colleges and houses cost too much. Both statements may be true. Still, if you take out a loan, you should expect to pay it back.

Now let’s take the example of powerful men and women who feel entitled to exploit their positions simply because of who they are. I’ve read more articles than I care to admit about Andrew Cuomo in the last few weeks. Clearly, he felt entitled to harass women and bully employees. He assumed he would continue to get away with it because he had for years. He also had enablers who helped discredit his accusers and made their lives a living hell. (I found it particularly rich when Trump declared Cuomo should resign given his own sordid past.) 

During the Brett Kavanaugh confirmation hearings, I had the sense that Kavanaugh felt he was entitled to be a Supreme Court justice. He didn’t feel that incidents which showed questionable judgment and poor character in his past should be examined. Yet one could certainly argue that his temperament and outrage during the hearings didn’t exemplify the steady, measured, thoughtful and unwavering qualities worthy of a Supreme Court justice. 

Lately, my friends have been telling me how frustrating it is to work with employees with newly minted college degrees. They claim many of them have a sense of entitlement that is difficult for them to fathom. Demanding better wages, work-life balance, benefits, etc. is not necessarily a bad thing. But assuming they should get promoted within a matter of months; that they should be given highly strategic work before they have even learned the ropes, is something else. 

Many psychologists, therapists, and student counselors believe that part of the reason young people feel so entitled is because their parents never said no to their demands. As a result, they feel entitled to have whatever they want without earning it. I don’t think it’s quite that simple, but there is a grain of truth here.  

They also say that people who have powerful positions for long periods of time often feel a sense of entitlement to do whatever they please—treat people shabbily or take advantage of them because of some misguided sense of almighty power.

So, what is to be done about this entitlement culture?  Experts say the solution involves two things:  gratitude and accountability.  

We need to help children and new employees, be grateful for what they have. Instead of always wanting more, gently remind them of their good fortune and encourage them to share that bounty when they can. 

The second concept is holding people accountable for their actions. If employees don’t meet their goals or perform tasks at a competent level, they shouldn’t expect bonuses or promotions automatically until they have mastered the competencies required for current positions. We must also hold our leaders accountable for their actions. As many have said in recent days, democracy and freedom only work when we do. 

As with all things, there are degrees here. Gratitude and accountability are not learned overnight. One minor mistake should not a cancel culture make. 

Fighting to make America as great as it can be—fighting for racial and gender equality, better bridges, roads, healthcare, clean water, the environment is a good thing. We are entitled to expect the best from our leaders and ourselves. But we must vote, and we must understand that there is a price to pay for these services that “lift all boats”.  And we must hold our leaders and ourselves accountable for doing our best to protect and preserve our democracy and the planet. 

Douglas MacArthur said, “No man is entitled to the blessings of freedom unless he be vigilant in its preservation.” Holding ourselves accountable to protect and preserve our freedom with a deep sense of gratitude for the privilege of doing so is quite the opposite of entitlement. 

Maria Grant was the principal-in-charge of the Federal human capital practice of an international consulting firm. Today she focuses on writing, reading, piano, travel, gardening and nature. 

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