Personal Essay: Driving Me Crazy on the Eastern Shore by Angela Rieck

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Every region has its own driving pattern, and I suppose that you can learn a lot about an area by observing it. I spent most of my driving years being schooled on the New Jersey driving rules and I have to admit that I like their style.

In NJ, it is all about time, therefore any driving that hinders one’s ability to get expediently from Point A to Point B is perceived as rude. The speed limit is considered a minimum threshold and on a 3-lane expressway, the unwritten rule is that the right lane is reserved for those who observe the speed limit (or 5 miles above). The middle lane is intended for those who drive about 10 miles over the speed limit and the left lane is designated for passing or those brave souls who ignore the speed limit entirely. Drivers who don’t respect those rules will hear blaring horns and receive “the look.” NJ driving values fit well into my view of things, but the Eastern Shore, well that is a different story.

On the Eastern Shore, independence, not time, is paramount. The philosophy is that “no one is going to tell me what to do” and that no one should be in a hurry. Here the speed limit seems to be merely aspirational. Since most roads on the Eastern Shore are single lane, I find myself at the mercy of this local perspective. It is inevitable that I will be behind a large, thundering pickup truck whose speed will vary randomly a few mph above or 10-15 mph below the speed limit throughout its journey. If I am not directly behind this driver, I will be part of a long line that is. Attempts to pass are only for the bold, as I have witnessed some of these drivers aggressively speed up when someone attempts to pass them.

Even if I am lucky enough to be alone on the road, I can expect someone to suddenly pull into my lane, requiring me to brake dramatically and then the driver will commence to crawl along, well below the speed limit. I have also observed that there appears to be some mysterious vortex that renders turn signals of Eastern Shore vehicles inoperable. It makes anticipating a driver’s next move quite challenging. A sudden stop in the middle of the road could be a left turn, a right turn or a desire to rest or even text.

Within a few months of moving here, I realized that I would not be able to hold onto my tenuous sanity and continue driving, so I purchased a car that has variable cruise control. This cruise control allows me to set my speed (in my case, a couple of mph above the speed limit, because I can dream!) and it adjusts to the driver ahead of me, so I don’t have to try to anticipate his or her variable moods.

The Eastern Shore is stunningly beautiful, there are few roads that are not punctuated with a bridge that crosses a picturesque river or creek. Woodlands and farmlands frame each road, and ospreys, peregrine falcons, bald eagles, bluebirds, barn swallows, cardinals and other birds delight me with their beautiful colors and aerial maneuvers. Sunsets and sunrises are marvels of pink, robin’s egg blue, and steel grays blended with deep red and orange hues. Simple clouds resemble thick, fluffy cotton balls, pink cotton candy, or wisps of polyester-fill strewn through the sky. It is difficult to live here without absorbing the natural beauty which softly inhabits my psyche. This is good, because I have a lot of time to soak it in while I am driving.

Angela Rieck is a former executive of a large insurance company and holds a Ph.D. in Mathematical Psychology from the University of Maryland. She now lives on the Mid-Shore. 

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Letters to Editor

  1. Deirdre LaMotte says:

    So true. My big issue are people “parked” in the passing lane. I don’t care where one is from, that lane is for passing only.
    Not getting over is dangerous and rude.

  2. Barbara Snyder says:

    I agree with you about the turn signals. But why are you in such a hurry? Relax!

    • ann miller says:

      Barbara – some of us aren’t in a hurry…some of us simply would LOVE it if you’d at least go the speed limit. That’s all we want, for people to stop doing 42 in a 50 down 213 for the Love of God.
      This essay is the best thing I’ve read in ages-

      • Jon Slocum says:

        I agree with what has been written above but there are some exceptions to the rule of driving the speed limit:

        *So, first of all it’s the Limit. Anything below this posted limit is perfectly legal.
        *The elderly need to go slower to be safe. Driving, eyesight, and reaction times are perishable skills. Older folks. if they are smart will just drive slower. Be thankful for their recognition of this and that they drive slower. I do not want my 90 year old Mom driving 5 over. In fact, I’m really glad she decided to stop driving at 85!
        *Pass if you are in a hurry and have calculated the risks. Kent county roads have plenty of marked passing zones.
        *Just be patient. I grew up in NJ and drove the Turnpike for 100 miles. The tailgating and the drivers that will ram their cars into any gap is just amazing, in a BAD way.

        I have lived in Kent county for 3 years after coming from NY and at my near retirement age, enjoy the easier pace. I leave 5 -10 more minutes to get where I need to go and enjoy the scenery and time. No need to make driving a stressful task!

  3. Glenn Michael says:

    Just slow down and enjoy!

  4. Sarah Ruckelshaus says:

    I also moved from elsewhere – suburban Philadelphia – where everything was done at fairly aggressive high speed. Moving to the Eastern Shore 17 years ago was a quick and hard education on how to slow down. While I certainly struggled with it the first year, I am now forever grateful that I have learned the patience required to travel our roads safely. The traveling in the slow lane has transferred into the rest of my life leaving me quite happy and content. Best part is that I can drive without my head exploding when I return to the real world. Enjoy.

  5. emily l Massey says:

    If you do not like the shore go back to Jersy

  6. Jacquie Kendall says:

    Love how people move here because they love to visit. Then they live here for awhile and want to complain and try to change things. You moved to us, so get used to it and enjoy, or Jersey is still there.

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